Term Paper Blog #4

The tools and informattion I have learned from this book is an ongoing process. The main concept in this book is to teach a person how to resolve a conflict with your spouse or anyone for that matter without arguing. It has shown me to listen not just hear what the other person is saying but truthfully listen. I still make mistakes I have caught myself trying to fire back at the other person before they are finished talking. But that is the key, that I am able to catch myself and make those certain adjustments where it doesn't happen again. This book has shown me that I do not have to agree with the person I am having a dispute with but to take in what they are saying and come up with a compramise. I intend to use these techniques the rest of my life and I would recommend this book to anyone. I have learned a lot from "Everybody Wins" by Gary Chapman.